There are many things in life that we can simply take or leave, but love is not one of them. Paul’s description of love is short but full of power. Love suffers for a long time. Our modern society encourages us to get rid of people in our lives who are difficult to get along with, whether they are friends, family or acquaintances. Yet this attitude runs in complete contrast to the love described by Paul. True love puts up with people who would be easier to give up on. If our love is directed towards others, we will rejoice in the blessings they receive rather than desiring those blessings for ourselves. The selfless love that God call us to, does not involve pride or glory. In fact true love does not seek its own, we will set aside our own plans, agendas and entitlements for the good of another. When we truly love others we are careful not to be touchy concerning other people’s words or action towards us. This does not mean that love is blind or naive. When we love, we may recognize problems and failures in people, but we do not lose faith in the possibilities of what people might become. Love never gives up, knowing that God can change lives for the better. This is the kind of love the Lord shows us.